Right after, I decided to start my own business since entrepreneurship was in my blood because most of my family are business owners.
Meanwhile, I had a tough time in my twenties dating. I was suffering from very low self esteem. I held onto the belief that I was too damaged to truly be loved by anyone because of some trauma I have dealt with in the past. I dated guys who were unhealthy for me. The only man who I ever trusted completely was my father who suddenly passed away when I was twenty six, with no warning at all.
I was angry at all the men who had wronged me, but I wanted to turn my pain into something positive. I decided the most beneficial and healing thing for me to do would be to help the good guy win, to give them that unfair advantage.
My goal which soon became my reality was to help the good guys find and keep relationships with women they once thought were out of their league, and it’s been incredibly rewarding.
But… the turmoil wasn’t over for me yet.
I hit rock bottom in my own life after trusting an ex boyfriend of mine who introduced me to his best friend, a con artist, who stole most of my life savings. It was one of the most terrifying, yet humbling experiences of my life.