Even though I was a bit of a dating disaster, I was still nicknamed the “The Therapist”. I’ve always had the desire to help people but also, dare I say, an innate ability to understand others and quickly diagnose the issues people are having both in their romantic life and their life in general.
I went to undergrad for Psychology and Graduate school for Psychotherapy at a top ten school to get licensed. My 6.5 years of education and training has given me the skills, tools and confidence to truly transform people’s lives personally and romantically.
Ok, back to my crappy love life…
I put on a facade and pretended everything in my life was wonderful but deep down, I was in emotional pain and I was making bad decisions for myself romantically, socially and professionally.
It wasn’t until a rock bottom moment when I hired my ex boyfriend’s best friend who stole most of my life savings. I lost everything- my apartment, my boyfriend, my money, my business.
I had a choice to play victim or fight back and take control of my life.
I chose the latter.
I didn’t want to be such a people pleaser anymore. I didn’t want to be so fragile and in so much pain anymore. I didn’t want to continue to make unhealthy decisions for myself anymore. I didn’t want to choose toxic people in my life anymore.
I didn’t want to pretend I was happy, I wanted to actually be happy.
While going through this self development journey, not only have I been in the trenches with my clients, but I was able to truly refine my methodology in a way I never would have without going through my own program myself.
This is what helped my business expand to what it is today. I’ve worked with hundreds of people to help them get unstuck whether it be getting their ex back, getting over their ex, gaining clarity and confidence, replacing negative repeated patterns, how to stand out from others, healing from trauma, finding and attracting high quality partners, being in a healthy relationship and more.
I’m touted as one of the top 75 dating influencers in the world. I’ve been featured on NBC, Forbes, New York Post, Chicago Tribune, Martha Stewart Weddings, Entrepreneur, Elite Daily, Refinery29 and more. I wrote a book “It’s Not Them, It’s You” which goes into depth about how my clients have gotten such good results and what’s standing between you and life you’ve always wanted.
I walk my clients through what I call “The Emotional Shifting Process” to be able to eliminate the emotional residue that we each unknowingly walk around with from past experiences. It weighs us down, it limits us, it changes our behavior, our energy, what and who we attract.
My philosophy is to help each person who I cross paths with becoming self sufficient as quickly but effectively as possible. I crave results.
My clients are dating and getting married more than ever before and I couldn’t be more grateful to do what I love every single day.
Like I said…my story has a happy ending. I met an amazing man who is dynamic, funny, emotionally intelligent and he loves and accepts me for me. He is now my husband, we just bought our dream home, we have a daughter and a son on the way.
Now it’s time for your happy ending. If you want to attract high quality people, if you want a relationship that continues to improve with time, if you’re not seeing the results of your efforts, if you’re not happy and feeling stuck, then you’re in the right place and we’ve got your back.